• Cards,  Tarot Spreads

    Between the One and the Many Spread

    This spread is for seeing where we are currently sitting between the one and the many. Seeing our current understanding of being in union or separation, being together or apart. And how these understandings are currently being expressed. I see life as centrally about relationship, and relationship as flowing between union and separation, both within and without. This spread aims to help see where you’re at right now within this eternal paradox, and to honour where you’ve come from. If you’re having any confusion about the relationship within, here’s one of nayyirah waheed’s wonderful poems: Positions 1 & 2 Where you sit These cards together describe where you’re currently sitting…

  • Cards,  Tarot Spreads

    Opening to my relationship…

    Here’s how the Opening to Relationship spread worked out for me recently… It definitely called me out on my shit and nicely focused my way forward.  I hadn’t actually tried this spread out on myself because I was all like ‘I’m really happy in my relationship!’, but obviously being really happy in your relationship doesn’t mean you aren’t putting your bullshit into it. I can now, with authority, say this is a badass spread. For the details of how to do it and a clearer picture of the positions go here. As usual I’m using the Mary El Tarot. The Reading The first three cards are the pile in the…

  • Cards,  Tarot Spreads

    Opening into relationship spread

    This spread is for those times in our intimate relationships, at whatever stage they are at, when we’re feeling confused. Where we feel positive charges drawing us to open into them, drawing us to union, and negative charges drawing us away from them, to separation. As I’ve said elsewhere,  and MANY others before me, intimate relationships are hard, they bring up our shit. This can get in the way of our opening to divine gifts laid before us, and also get in the way of our seeing when its not a divine gift before us at all. We want our relationships to bring us to ourselves, to heal rather than…

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    Today I Rise…

    A friend shared the incredible video below for International Women's Day yesterday. I watched it today while dealing with feelings of fear and stress and anger. I bawled my eyes out.